Dreams (Aberlado)

Dreams… what do dreams represent lots of things Maybe in your life, school, or any other action that has happen to you or you imagine in your sleep. But dreams are not just while you are sleeping you can dream about what you want to be when you’re older about your future. Or also day dream about other things just focus on certain things or you have hat what if going on in your head thinking about all the possible things that happen in your life. Dreams can affect you in life maybe because the brought up sad memories or good times can make you get into your feelings. Dreams aren’t always a good thing there are many types of dreams sad angry romantic ones or there can be different moods settings and depends how the dream is taking place.

Dreams that I’ve had had effected me in lots always because sometimes you don’t just dream to dream you dream of things that you want to happen in your life or memories that you loved and sometimes dream over and over again.

My dreams that I’ve had recently affected me a lot because they were about a special person in my life that I haven’t seen in a while and that person meant the world to me and now that I cant see Her it devastates me that I can only text her and not even be able to call her to tell her how much I miss her.

Dreams can be very special or be hateful for people depending on how the dreams go some dreams might come trues some dreams just stay a fantasy n your head.

Dreams (Velia)

What do "dreams" represent? What is the power of dreams? Can dreams have an effect on "reality"? Has a dream ever effected what you did in your real life? I believe dreams represent thoughts and your subconscious. I think dreams have an effect to interpret your inner thoughts and emotions. If you are facing a problem I believe dreams have the power to help you solve it. I think dreams are very important in our lives. I think based on what you dream is the mood you are feeling in. Dreams represent different moods and thoughts. Some people claim they can even translate dreams to see what the real meaning is. Yes, a dream has affected me in real life. Some of my dreams involve random people i have bare barely met. Dreams change my perspective on things, such as choices, people or feelings. Dreams can sometimes scare me, they can be pretty weird and wild. They can creep you out. I have also read about an article called "lucid dreaming" and that's when you can control your dreams but it takes a lot of practice to master. Lucid dreaming has benefits to it such as problem solving, facing your fears and exploring your inner self! I think that's pretty interesting. I believe if you have the same repeating dream that it has a meaning to it. There are websites that can help you interpret dreams. Dreams are very important to the human life, they cause many questions as well as answers.

Interfering with your love. (Kenia)

In my opinion I think that your friends and family have No right on telling you whom to love. They can’t take over what you feel. They can’t decide your feelings towards a person. Yes they can suggest what person could be good for you or give you their opinion. At times that helps. Sometimes an opinion can mean a lot too you, especially if its your family. I believe that a FAMILY is more important than anything else; also I bet that they just want the best for you, but choosing the person who you should and need too love is just not right. That’s a decision of your own.  You decide on who makes you happy, whom you truly love and a person that you really want to be with. I think that our society has changed a lot. Things aren’t the same like they used to be back than. Family and friends stay try too stay out of their teen-aged relationship. If they see their daughter/son happy, than that makes them happy as well. But at points parents give out their opinion a lot and what they think about that person who you love. It can be a good or bad opinion, but at least they let you know what they honestly think. Witch is a good thing. In my case my friends/ family do not play a role on who I love. Yes they give me their opinion. Some of them say that he’s a great guy and some of them say that he’s no good for me, that I can do better and all that. I mean yes I take their opinion but I love him and I can’t and won’t want to change. He makes me happy and I’m happy with him so I believe that’s all that matters. 

Family and Love (Kara)

I think the only thing family and friends can do is have an opinion on my love life, they don’t have the right to tell me who can and cannot I love. If I were to be dating at a young age then maybe yeah I probably would expect my dad or mom to have some “say” in if I can see/date him or not. By the time I’m grown or at least old enough to make my own decisions in life I shouldn’t hear my parents/family or friends suggest whom to date. Our society changed were woman has the rights to choose who to date who to love ECT…  Back then woman was basically owned by her father choice of who to marry, and without any say she had to do it, face death or become a nun. They couldn’t see their husband till the day of the marriage. They probably didn’t even love the men they were going to marry but in their fathers eyes he was wealthy and just right so they had to follow the law. Family and Friends do play a role in who I love for them to come around they have to get comfortable and use to the person I love. Society has made a big change as far as dating, marriage and love!

Dream (Yesenia)

Dreams to me represent something your mind puts together after a long day. Its Things it puts together in no random order. I also believe dreams can be a place where people that have passed away can reach to you; because they say that when your asleep your soul goes somewhere else. I’ve seen a movie where a little boy is stuck in his dream and he cant wake up, if affects his in real life because he’s dying. The power of dreams I believe is your imagination. Imagination is what you want it to be. Your imagination can at points be your worst enemy. It can imagine the worst, but I can also imagine a lot of good things. Yes dreams can have an effect on reality; sometimes dreams are like reality checks, appreciate what you have. Because unlike real life, in your dreams something bad can happen to the people you love, and since it was only a dream, you know nothing actually happened. It has affected me in real life a couple of times, I’ve dreamed about my grandpa dying, or something happening to someone I love, or even to me. It just would all depends on the decisions you make. 

Interfering with someone's love? (Selso)

Do friends and family have a right to tell you whom you love?

No they do not have a right to tell a person whom they should or should not love. It is their decision not anyone else’s, it is their feelings not their parents or friends but theirs. That person is the one that they want they are going to be with that person they love, not their parents or friends.  If his or her friends do not like the person that they love it is not their decision to tell them they should not love them or be with them. Society has change because of this some friends stopped being friends because one of them loved someone the other hated. Or others ran away from home because their parents did not agree with their decision on who the love. They can suggest who you should love if you are not with someone at that moment and only if they are trying to help you; but they can only suggest that does not mean you have to love that person because they told you he or she would be a good person to like or love. And they do not have a right to get mad at you because you do not love someone they want you to love or like.

Family & Love (Kenneth)

I don’t think that friends nor family have the right to choose or tell me who my lover would be, and suggestion’s, I think maybe they can suggest but that’s it, cause maybe who they suggest is a real good person and maybe she would be my type but if I’m already in a relationship and they don’t like her and suggest someone else, no. I think that I should be able to choose freely, and show to my family and friends that “this” is whom I’m marrying. Society has changed massively about marriage, because back “then”; fathers would force the men to marry the daughters if they got pregnant or something which was called “Shotgun marriage”. Also fathers could choose who their daughters would marry, even if they haven’t seen them before, and now woman and men have the right to choose who ever they feel is the right one to marry.  No my family nor my friends play a role in who I love, a mean they’ll have opinions but they shouldn’t because they have their own life and should pay more attention on who they are going to love and not who I love.