Monday, February 4, 2013

Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind (Leslie)



Helena says, “Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.” (I, I, 234- 235)
I think this statement is really true because most people and from my experiences I have notice that most people could be either blind, death, or just paralyzed on a wheel chair or have some kind of syndrome and those people end up finding there true love. Obviously those people do not judge there soul mate or what ever they call it by there outside. They judge by the inside on how they really are. Their personality and those special features that make the other person fall in love with them even more. But the outside features are also important well on my opinion. They don’t have to be perfect. If they both have more similarities than differences than they can actually work out. They don’t have to be agreeing with almost everything. Someone also can attracked by their differences. What counts is that the couple can sooner or later after disagreeing on something they could end up with a agreement. So I totally agree on Helena because what counts is too look for your loved one not with your eyes but with the mind. That way if you are ready to settle down, and want something to last. I think its better to love with the mind.

Helena: say’s “, Love looks with looks not with the eyes, but with the heart (Trenice)


Helena: say’s “, Love looks with looks not with the eyes, but with the hear
Yes, I think this statement is true because I don’t look for the looks, I see the personality and how he act towards me the face ant got nothing to do with love. If he just but ugly sorry that will not do to the point I cant stand looking at him, that point I will have to go. Why I say that is because I went with this dude and he wasn’t even my type of person I would date, until I got to know him he was real cool and I like his personality and how he was treating me the looks didn’t even matter at all I saw him way different. I think if your looking for love you shouldn’t care what they look like, cause to be honest the ugly ones is the best ones that will treat u good and got hecka money and will do something in their life, I’m just saying. My sister had dated a man that was just ugly and I used to make fun of him, and she told me that the looks does not matter it all about the way he is, so I got to know him and he was a pretty good guy after all.

Friday, February 1, 2013

The course of true love never did run smooth (Kenneth)

 
Lysander said of love, “The course of true love never did run smooth”. I believe this statement to be true because I think that true love is hard to find. Also because your not always going to find the right person for you right away, so there will be times when you think you’ve found that special person but will end up not being him/her. I also think that when you are or when you think that you are in love, things will seem to get complicated and you just want to give up or leave. Also love never to me, is unexpected, we never see it coming until one day we meet someone that makes you feel special and wanted. I also agree that true love doesn’t run smooth, because love isn’t easy, true love is hard to find, and when you do find it there will always be up’s and down’s, it wont always turn out to be perfect. I also think that by saying it never did run smooth he means, love isn’t always on your side, like you can love someone so much, but they could be in love with another someone.
I also believe that even if you don’t think you love someone and you’re meant to be, some how you will be drawn back to him or her and learn to love him or her. “The course of true love never did run smooth”.

Love looks with the Mind (Jazlin)

(Helena says, "Love Looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.")
I do agree with this statement, because love can happen when ever however. It can be the ugliest person to someone else but you may fall in love with this person. It's the personality you should care about since it's the personality your going to live with not just their looks. Follow your heart and mind not what you see.

I do believe family has at least a suggestion of who we should love but not always what they think will be right. It's what our hearts know not about whats someone else thinks. In the society things have changed every person has it's own rights in choosing who they want to marry who they can love. I do think family can interfere with a person's decision thats why I do think family or friends can play a role in to who we love.

Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind (Velia)

Helena says, “Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.” (I, I, 234- 235)

This means one should not be with someone based on their good looks or how attractive they are but rather be with some one because of their personality. This is true in many ways, if you are with some one for their looks, you are in love with their looks and not the person they are. Some attractive people have some of the worst personalities you can ever have, because of their good looks they tend to take advantage of people because they are used to getting anyone they want. If you are with them you may not be happy with them and will later regret it and most likely it will not work out. Rather, if you choose to be with someone because of their personality is much better. You fall in love with who they really are and look beyond their looks and see their inside. You are more likely to be come comfortable with this person and have a long and happy relationship. Looks are not everything and you will also have to remember that looks fade over time, and when that happens what will you be left with? I am not saying to get the most hideous person out there and expect you to be happy with him or her but get some one you are comfortable around. Some one who makes you fall in love with who they are instead of how they look. You will be more than happy with yourself and your loved one.

Illusions (Jazlin)

I think to the extent where our hearts lead. Reality is where when things go badly or good and you can still feel and understand whats going on. Illusion is important because it something some what want or believe in as long it doesn't become a crazy illusion. Imagination plays in romance as the hope of the relationship. It helps us imagine our lives with spouse , do we see each other together in feature life, can we children, a family. I believe we need illusions in our lives because like I said it's some what hope in something we want to happen its jus like a guidance.

Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind (Biridiana)

      I believe the statement Helena said, which is “ Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.” In her case it’s because Demetrius loves Hermia for her looks and for being wealthier than her.
I agree with her statement because love isn’t all about looks, its feelings you have inside for that person. Like the saying “don’t judge a book by its cover.”
Even if their looks are not attractive sooner or later they will. In my opinion the more you get to know the person the more they become attracted in your eyes. The personality of a person makes them better looking. He/ She could be the less attractive person you’ve ever seen, but can also be the nicest person you’ll ever meet.
Looks shouldn’t matter, if they do I think its because you care about what others say of who you are seen with. It’s not right to be embarrassed of whom you are seen with. You should be comfortable being seen with who ever you are in love with. If you are embarrassed, it’s better to look for someone new instead of telling them. They could end up heart broken.
When a person loves someone’s looks it’s for attention. It’s not love, if it is then your lucky. Most of the time that’s not the case. If you fall in love with someone’s looks and after you get to know their personality I would guarantee they will no longer be attracted in your eyes.
If you get to know the personality you will get more along with the person. If its looks, there might be arguments at times since you don’t know the way each other are.